coconut heads!!!

We lost power for a while yesterday when the thunderstorms hit us. Kids like electricity and so do laptops. I was planning on spending Sunday working on my couch, watching the Phils, taking breaks to play with the kids here and there. Instead, I tried to make it fun by lighting candles and building a fort on the couch for them. That novelty wore off quickly.

We headed over to my Mother’s electrified house, had some dinner, played a bit and then headed back to our (hopefully electrified) home. I chuckled a bit to myself hearing the kids cheering that we had electricity as we saw the porch light on.

The kids and I made coconut heads last night. I got this idea from Magpie Musing. Bubs wanted his coconut head to have a mustache and a mohawk…

We read a bunch of new books at bedtime : First the Egg (great artwork and concept), A Good Day (Viv loves this one), Not a Stick (loved this one, her earlier book, Not a Box is great too), I’m the Biggest Thing in the Ocean, and Scaredy Squirrel at the Beach (kids love Scaredy Squirrel).

I’m confused with myself lately. I don’t know if it’s my back pain, not sleeping enough, or the unfortunate impending departure of my children, but my fuse has gotten shorter. I have been finding myself being bothered by stuff that normally does not phase me. I hate that they’re going. Hate it.

you don’t know just how much i miss you
yah my stomach aches in your absence
i don’t know what i’d do without you
cause i’d have no one to follow

you are my love
i hold you above
everything and everyone
Lily and Parrots ~ Sun Kil Moon

In a week, this home is going to be. so. quiet.

27 Responses to “coconut heads!!!”

  1.  lime Says:

    those coconut heads are a riot! love em. :)

    and yeah i really was more about the big ragu, and i wouldn’t have been sending him off to a cold shower all the time.

    as for the short fuse, i think it’s a combination of “all of the above.”

    hugs, amigo.

    lime’s last blog post..Meme-ification

  2.  Peter Says:

    Back pain, not sleeping enough, the impending departure of your children: not exactly issues to make anyone feeling on top of the world Van.

    You do all manage to have fun though: coconut heads, way to go ;-)

    By sheer coincidence parts of Antwerp, Belgium, also lost power when we were hit by violent thunderstorms. Losing power at my place mostly involves “breaking up the concrete floor”, but this time we were lucky.

    Peter’s last blog post..‘Mummy, there’s 10,000 watts of music in front of our door’

  3.  Chris Says:

    The coconut heads RULE. I picture an animated short…

    I think that all three of those things would contribute to crankiness… *hugs*

    Chris’s last blog post..Ummmm…

  4.  tori Says:

    The coconut heads are awesome! When I was little, my parents took me to Hawaii. I got a coconut head purse, and I still have it. I actually just gave it to my daughters and they thought it was hysterical.

    That sucks that your kids have to leave soon. The combination of all the stress your under makes total sense for you to have a shorter fuse right now. I’m sorry. I wish there was something I could do to make it all good for you.

    tori’s last blog post..The Socks That Will Kill Me

  5.  furiousBall Says:

    lime – you would have been so much better for Carmine than that strumpet Shriley

    Peter – breaking up the concrete floor? holy crap!

    Chris – yeah, after typing that paragraph, i kind of realized how stupid it all sounds now.

  6.  furiousBall Says:

    tori – thank you, part of me just wants those heads on a shelf a memory of a great summer and part of me doesn’t want to look at them, because it’s just going to hurt so damn bad

  7.  Kristin Says:

    I’m sorry… I can only begin to imagine how difficult it would be to have only “part time” with my kids… I wish I had some magic to help, but all I can offer is some links to internet porn or sending you my 2 labs… they are so needy that you will pray for solitude.

    Kristin’s last blog post..Facebook (Part Deux)

  8.  Great/Greta Says:

    I don’t believe you. I think those are human heads. I am contacting the authorities. Sicko.

    Great/Greta’s last blog post..O Mighty Ketosis…osis….osis

  9.  furiousBall Says:

    Kristin – it’s not really even part time. only summers and alternating holidays

    Greata – on the kids? well yeah, of course those are human heads. i think it’s weirder that you thought i was calling the kids’ heads coconut heads. i’m calling the authorities on you calling the authorities on me

  10.  Kristin Says:

    Hey, where do I find you on Facebook? I want to poke you! (insert lascivious/dirty old woman grin here)

    Kristin’s last blog post..Facebook (Part Deux)

  11.  mamatulip Says:

    I love the coconut heads, and electricity.

    If I could, I’d send Oliver your way for a week or so to keep you company and run you ragged. He’s good that way.

  12.  Jazz Says:

    I love the coconut heads. I want to make coconut heads.

    Sorry they’re leaving soon.

    Jazz’s last blog post..Just sayin’

  13.  On a Limb with Claudia Says:

    ((hug)) to all of you. I hate that they are leaving too. Hate it.

    On a Limb with Claudia’s last blog post..Take a step.

  14.  corky Says:

    Thank God for Ben Franklin! I can’t imagine what life must have been like before electricity. I guess that’s why people had such short life spans back in those days. They were bored to death.

    corky’s last blog post..Benadryl Addict

  15.  Alex Says:

    Just leaving the US for the 5′th time I can testify that there’s nothing as challenging to your patience as a premature separation- nothing quite.

  16.  furiousBall Says:

    Kristin – i think you can find me by my email addy – vank (at) furiousball.com

    mamatulip – I’d totally be down with hanging with the O

    Jazz – you should, it’s fun

    On a Limb with Claudia – there’s going to be a huge hole in me heart

    corky – dude Ben had his shit wired tight

    Alex – amen

  17.  Maddy Says:

    Ah such happy photos kind of makes it all the tougher. I don’t suppose you’ve got them to record your answering machine message have you? [that may be a bad idea from the safety point of view though]
    Best wishes

    Ooo – you’ve got commentluv too – how on earth did you get it onto your blog?

    Maddy’s last blog post..Manners maketh man, Manic Monday

  18.  T Says:

    Sending them away is never easy, I know as well as anyone. But they’re your babies, they’ll always be your babies, and they’ll always come back.

    (hugs)

    T’s last blog post..Manic Monday? Not so much…

  19.  liv Says:

    well, fudgecakes. i can’t even offer to hand-fart the national anthem for you. truth? i know that nothing can make you feel better about them being gone. but, people want to love you and want to try to fill the gap as best they can. give them a shot; don’t shut them out.

    liv’s last blog post..things can get nasty.

  20.  Jay Says:

    Holy god do i ever need one of those coconut heads! What, I have to make them? Sheesh.

    Jay’s last blog post..Hypothetical

  21.  Bud Buckley Says:

    Shot fuse? Yeah, all those things mentioned. Breathe.

    Bud Buckley’s last blog post..THE VAMPIRE OF VENICE VISITS CLEARWATER AND RETURNS TO NUMBER ONE IN LONDON

  22.  that girl Says:

    Aww..I know that quiet and it’s pretty sad. I’m sorry. Back and forth sucks.

    that girl’s last blog post..Minutiae..

  23.  Houston Says:

    I’m sorry to hear the kids will be leaving soon. Love them and let them know they are loved.

    When they leave, lean on us, (your sicko support group) because we care and will be there for you.

    Houston’s last blog post..More ALL

  24.  magpie Says:

    Love them!

    Now you need to start sending the coconuts on adventures.

    magpie’s last blog post..Pink Wine

  25.  Tink Says:

    With as much as you’re going through, I think you’re allowed to be a bit short tempered. I caught Hoop yelling at the cake he made last night because it refused to come unstuck from the pan. I grabbed his hands and gently said, “Dude. I don’t think the cake can hear you.” You’ll get through this too, even if you don’t want to. ((HUG))

    Tink’s last blog post..It Writes Itself

  26.  jenijen Says:

    i am so sorry. you are an amazing dad — those calls and bedtime stories and love from far away mean so much.

    xo

    jenijen’s last blog post..headrub for wednesday

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